The Family Freeloader

The Family Freeloader

Is there a freeloader in your family? Are you tired of being constantly hit up for money, invitations, and favors? Are you fed up with always being the host and never the guest? Do your family members think they’re entitled to your help, but don’t think they need to show any appreciation, pay you back, or return the favor? Are you worried about not being a “good” Christian if you say “No” to a freeloader’s request? Written with humor, wisdom, and a healthy dose of common sense, The Family Freeloader is just what you need! In this book, Sister Renee Pittelli will:

• Help you recognize the various ploys that freeloaders use to get money and favors from us.

• Explain how con-artist relatives observe and test you, and what personality traits might make you seem like easy prey.

• Systematically debunk many of the most common sob-stories and surprisingly sneaky tactics used by our family freeloaders.

• Teach you 21 Ways to Spot A Con.

• Offer a step-by-step guide of effective strategies for turning down requests for money and favors, and deflecting the hard-luck stories, scams, pressure, and guilt-trips in your freeloader’s bag of tricks.

• Include an analysis of what the Bible really says about giving to the poor and needy versus giving to the idle and malingerers, with relevant Scripture verses.

The Family Freeloader is an invaluable lesson for all kind-hearted, generous people-pleasers, who love their families, on how to avoid being taken advantage of by the unscrupulous among us. $9.99 on Kindle.

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Family Is Not Everything: How to Minimize Their Mess, Maximize Your Happiness and Enjoy Emotional Baggage Breakthroughs

Family Is Not Everything: How to Minimize Their Mess, Maximize Your Happiness and Enjoy Emotional Baggage Breakthroughs
Are people constantly dumping their negative energy on you? Do you find yourself bombarded with painful thoughts from your past? What if with seven simple steps you could minimize their mess and maximize your happiness? Interested? Read on…In Family Is Not Everything:

How To Minimize Their Mess, Maximize Your Happiness and Enjoy Emotional Baggage Breakthroughs, author Anita Washington details personal stories of surviving a homicidal alcoholic father, a neglectful mother and an emotionally and physically abusive brother to show you how childhood trauma turns into adult dysfunctional behavior. She includes lessons to learn from her abuse and her life-altering mistakes, along with teaching you how to use the affirmations, techniques and activities of her 7-Step Method to resolve the effects of emotional baggage and create a life of purpose and meaning.

The 7-Step Method is a process of seven sequential steps she had seen produce the greatest results. It has not only worked to improve her life and the lives of her previous clients, but it can also work for you. Reading this book you will: Be equipped to boldly go beyond your comfort zone and refresh, reinvent, and revise your life for the better. Learn how to transform negative thinking into positive thinking with 7 affirmations, 7 results-driven techniques, and 7 actionable activities. Learn how to defy your limiting beliefs about yourself and create a life you’ll love living. $2.99 on Kindle.

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Narcissistic Predicaments

Narcissistic Predicaments

Adult Children of narcissistic families often find themselves in predicaments that people with normal families never have to face. They spend a lifetime being stuck in no-win situations, forced to make uncomfortable choices, and then being made to live through the consequences with no support and no appreciation. When you try to set boundaries, do your abusive relatives accuse you of not being a “good Christian” because:

•You are not honoring your father and mother?
•You have to “forgive and forget,” even though your abusers have not apologized or agreed to stop their abuse?
•You must forgive unrepentant evildoers because Jesus said “Father forgive them, for they know not what they do”?
•You are taking revenge by enforcing consequences, and vengeance is supposed to be the Lord’s?
•The Bible says “Love your enemies”?

In this book, you will learn effective strategies for protecting yourself and find out what the Bible really says. Offering encouragement, comfort and wisdom, and filled with helpful suggestions, step-by-step guides, and just-right scripture verses, Narcissistic Predicaments is exactly what you need to help you set boundaries and free yourself in accordance with biblical principles. $11.99 on Kindle.
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